When is the last time that you’ve experienced a woman that is TRULY alive?
You know, the woman that is BOLD in the way she appears, draws you in by the way she sounds, keeps your attention with the information she shares (or doesn’t share), has you mesmerized by the way she smells, piques your interests as you imagine how she tastes, and gets the hairs on your body to stand at attention from her touch.
If you’re being honest, this kind of woman, who allows all five senses to soar, is a dime a dozen now, and her absence is making the world a really unfortunate place to be.
You see, when a woman is alive in all of her senses and capabilities, she lights the world on fire.
Everything she touches turns to gold.
Everyone that crosses her path, wishes they had more time; and the ones who do get her attention – feel like the luckiest humans on earth.
She is a sensual woman, one who knows her magic and allows every inch of it to take up space; and she lives deep inside of every woman you know.
What brings her out, is a soul’s deep loving appreciation for her natural self and a zest for life.
If you meet her, you will never forget her!
If you become her, your life will be an unending magical experience.
This Post is all about how to become a Sensual Woman
Appreciate Your Physical Being: (Sight)
The first place to start in becoming a sensual woman is to appreciate the physical temple you exist in, which India Arie so eloquently serenades in her song – ‘Video’.
This song talks about the beauty in natural curves, natural hair and everything beautiful in its most natural form.
Her lyrics remind you that no matter your body type, you are meant to appreciate your body in its fullness.
Like all women, you have at some point in your life been made to feel as though something was off about you; made to believe that because you didn’t look like the video vixens or magazine cover girls, that you aren’t as juicy as women are meant to be.
And that is absolute bullsh*t!
Depending on where in the world you were raised, there was some exceptional example of a woman that you were constantly compared to.
Maybe your eyes were too big, your ass too flat, your skin color wasn’t the right complexion, your stomach was too pudgy, hair not long enough or one of the other boxes that we as women are confined to.
Luckily for you, the truth is that you are perfectly and divinely made, just as you are.
And being a sensual woman is identifying the things you do love about yourself and hyping them up – in the mirror and out in the world.
Being sensual is also choosing to love the parts of your body that weren’t accepted – knowing that this body that you’ve been gifted to live in, is indeed your luxury carrying case.
This level of self-acceptance will light up the ground that you walk on and open doors that you’ve never seen.
Why?
Because self acceptance is electric.
It is gratifying and magnetic when you can love your physical self regardless of circumstances.
It says to the world that your natural self is wonderfully made, and that energy draws in all things.
I promise you, a lot of people won’t understand how you can love yourself despite not looking like the “ideal” woman, and that is the definition of a sensual woman – ready and willing to indulge in herself without needing permission from anyone else.
Take a listen to ‘Video’ by India Arie and let the words vibrate through your soul and inspire the way you speak to yourself and others.
Audio Appealing (Sound) + Intellectually
Although what people see is what first catches their attention, it is the sound of your voice and the depth of your intellect that keeps them tuned in.
Now you might not be interested in becoming a recording artist, but you certainly do deserve to use the words and sound of your voice to create your reality.
I mean, that is what sensual women do as you can hear for yourself in India Arie’s ‘Simple’ where she starts off by whispering in your ear.
She effortlessly shows the power of letting your femininity and gentleness do the work.
Think about the most powerful women you know… maybe she’s Oprah, who has interviewed the most prolific people for over 20 years, or its Beyonce, who can get you to spend your last dollar to attended her concerts, or its your mother/grandma, who had 15 children for the same man and never wondered where money was coming from to pay the bills.
In each of these women is a voice that is meant to be heard.
Her ideas are spoken with a certainty that sparks fires and calms oceans.
Her emotions take up space and her words of wisdom land as if they come directly from the ancestors, with a level of grace that wouldn’t ruffle a feather.
She doesn’t have to get out of character because she knows deep down that words and tonality have power.
And this power exists in you too.
In order for it to live out loud, it requires USE.
You are meant to speak, to sing off key, to say the wrong thing and then clean it up with the right thing.
Giving yourself permission to be heard, is giving yourself permission to create your dream life; to live fulfilled.
That is the sensual woman; one who knows that her dreams are already fulfilled and that her voice is what brings them to life, leaving them on your mind like the scent of your favorite perfume
Nasally Appealing (Smell)
Now, although being physically beautiful and sounding like angels singing the most perfect hymn can do a wonder, it is the lingering power of smell that will have your greatest desire yearning to magnetize to you.
A woman’s scent is soft, yet powerful.
It caresses you in the most mysterious ways and if it happens to land on you, you never want to take it off.
Don’t believe me?
Listen to ‘Nature’ by India Arie where she talks about letting nature run the show!
A very important part of being your most sensual self is identifying the best scent for you.
Something that dances well with your natural fragrance and also gently leaves everyone wondering what you’re wearing.
Beyond external perfumes, a great way to have a sweet smell is to consume more fruits and vegetables.
By having a healthy diet, the natural scents that exude from your body will have those who get closest to you, intoxicated by the same things that draws the birds and bees in.
Honestly, it’s the most natural women that make life do what they want, effortlessly.
That is the sensual woman, she doesn’t need much to make the most happen, in the most tasteful ways.
Tastefully Appealing (Taste)
If you’ve ever smelt baked goods like banana bread coming from the kitchen, the smell will literally make you weak in the knees until you get to put a hot piece in your mouth.
And that’s when the fireworks go off.
Listen to ‘Wonderful’ by India Arie where she talks about how her lover’s individuality touches her soul, taking her to new heights.
Being a sensual woman has the same appeal.
She is layered, first pulling you in with her beauty, then with the electricity of her voice, followed by her scent and then the way she carries herself is like the most delectable five-course meal at the most expensive restaurant in town.
This woman knows that her depth deserves soul-deep love; consistent attention to detail that will empower her to evolve and keep you yearning for more of her teachings.
Her taste, literally and figuratively, is off the chains.
What she likes and tastes like is nothing you’ve ever had before.
Her entire life is inspired by the things that she’s read, the places she’s traveled to, and the people that she’s met.
Like her, you get to tap into the depth of your life experience to enhance your taste too.
No matter what your life circumstances have or haven’t been, you have had the opportunity to see and do things that make you one of a kind.
Your expression of these moments of time, in the now, are what take your taste to new heights.
This uniqueness is undeniably appealing whether it exists in the flavors of the food you cook, the fabrics you wear, or the tasteful way you walk across the room, stealing everyone’s attention.
Your taste will have the world be tempted to touch.
Sexually Appealing (Touch)
Usually, when someone says you have touched their soul they are talking about kind words or lyrics, but a sensual woman knows that she has the ability to grasp your inner spirit by simply touching your human flesh.
Her touch isn’t abrasive.
In fact it is the exact opposite, similar to the loving touch you received as a child.
India Arie sings so beautifully about this in her song ‘Brown Skin’, where she admits that “she needs some every now and then”; some being the magnetic pull of physical touch or sex.
You see, a sensual woman knows that physical touch and sex have magical powers.
She ensures that her touch is always soft, a delectable graze that is soul gratifying.
It has a healing capability to it, more powerful than a message and more memorable than her scent.
She knows that you will never forget how she made you feel.
You have this power to.
The gift to heal with the mind-body connection.
The ability to reverse trauma and ease pain by the way you touch someone’s arm, hug them entirely or swallow them whole in a sexual experience.
Unfortunately, sexual touch has been minimized to emotionless roughhousing, where the woman’s orgasm isn’t a priority.
Fortunately, a sensual woman doesn’t abide by these rules.
She first spends time rubbing, soothing and becoming familiar with her own skin, to the point that she can’t tell where it starts, and when she lays with you, she’s unaware of where yours ends.
While you’re touching, ever so softly and intently, both yourself and your partner, it causes your brain to release a surge of feel-good hormones, which create a relaxed and blissful state.
This mental state has the power to improve your psychological health and give you great peace of mind.
This is the power of the sensual woman, to love and to heal through her physical touch, creating magic whenever she swims with another.
Conclusion
Being a truly sensual woman means knowing that you are dynamic, magical, and especially unique.
By accepting the truth of who you are and unabashedly sharing her with the world, is how you allow others to choose you.
When you allow yourself to explore all five of your senses, you begin to vibrate at your highest levels, what we in the spiritual realm call 5D.
By expressing all of your senses, you will eventually get to a point where you can simply BE and receive the dreamiest life ever.
That is the power of a deeply sensual woman and she exists inside of you – ready to be wild and free!
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